WINsday Inspiration - March 12
- Jewel Diamond Taylor
- Mar 12
- 3 min read
For years, I wore my pink rose-colored glasses…and masks. I played the nice one, the peacemaker, the fixer—the one who avoided conflict just to keep things “calm.” But deep down, I was overlooking red flags, ignoring my own needs, and losing pieces of myself.
As a wife, mother, sister, friend, and leader—and through counseling thousands of women—I know this story all too well. I’ve walked that road of trying to hold it all together with some prayer and super glue, sacrificing myself just to keep the peace. I know how difficult it is to realize, accept, and cope with people close to you who can be a source of hurt, neglect, selfishness, manipulation, betrayal, exhaustion, and sleepless nights. And like so many women I’ve had the privilege to coach, I had to learn the hard truth: harmful patterns will hold you back until you break them.
Over time, I’ve seen women rise. I’ve witnessed them shatter the strongholds of silent suffering, depression, wishful thinking, and painful blind spots. And I’ve seen them reclaim their voice, their vision, and their value.
Here’s what I know for sure: Self-abuse is real. You can learn to normalize it. It doesn’t always scream. Sometimes it’s silent. It looks like neglecting your own peace, silencing your voice, pushing aside your priorities, health, purpose, dreams—and even your safety—just to make others comfortable.
That’s not love. That’s self-sacrifice on a level that drains your soul, steals your joy, and erodes your self-worth.
You can’t fix what you won’t face. And recognizing your blind spots is the first step toward real healing, real peace, and real power—whether that’s in your family, friendships, workplace, or while dating.
At my upcoming EmpowHER Meet UP, I’m going to share the over 12 hidden patterns women often carry—many without even realizing it—that create chaos, drain your energy, and block your joy. You deserve more…more clarity, more confidence, and more peace.
Are you ready to stop overlooking red flags? Ready to break free from old habits that keep you stuck?
Join me for the EmpowHER Meet Up Part 2! This is your safe place to reclaim your power, reset your boundaries, and refresh your soul. First come, first serve. Limited to only 50 women.
Dwan Smith-Fortier and Dr. Rosie Milligan will be sharing their wisdom about relationships also. Bring your questions and notebook to receive some powHERfull notes, tips, and stories.
🌿 "Stop watering relationships that only leave you feeling thirsty."
🌿 "When you know you are God’s masterpiece, you stop entertaining anyone who treats you like a backup plan."
🌿"This time, it’s not about being chosen. It’s about discerning who deserves to walk with the woman you’ve become."
🌿 "After all you’ve survived, joy and companionship are still part of your divine portion."
🌿 "When you ignore red flags, they turn into stop signs down the road."
🌿 "You can’t force someone to value you, but you can choose to value yourself enough to walk away."
🌿 "The right relationships don’t require you to shrink, dim your light, or silence your truth."
🌿 "Boundaries are bridges to better relationships, not barriers."
🌿 "If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive. Date with discernment, not desperation." "
"Parenting adult children requires patience, perspective, and a prayerful heart. God is still working in them, just as He is in you."
💛 "The greatest gift you can give your adult children is not advice, but faith in their ability to navigate life."
💛 "You’ve done the hard work of raising them—now trust God to do the hard work of guiding them."
When you register, email JewelMotivates@gmail.com to confirm if you are a returning guest who attended Part One in February. I will have a special gift for you!!!!
This is the link to register
Well said Dr. Taylor